Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies present a wonderful opportunity for Jewish families to celebrate the emergence into adolescence of a daughter or son. This Jewish tradition emphasizes learning, prayer, and public competence as demonstrations of maturity.
When your son or daughter becomes Bar or Bat Mitzvah, your family will experience one of the most significant and highly spiritual Jewish adventures of your lifetime! Our rabbis, cantor, Hebrew teachers and the entire staff at UH relish our time with you as together, we create a joyous and uplifting simcha experience.
The successful completion of a Bar/Bat Mitzvah process affirms the self-esteem of an emerging adolescent Jew and his or her family. This highly emotional journey may have moments of anxiety, but it is filled with great joy as well. Preparation for Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies takes hard work, sacrifice, and commitment, and we at UH are here to help with every step along the path.
With personalized attention, the rabbis, cantor and Esther Olson, our clergy assistant, are ready to assist all families of the congregation to maximize their Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies as authentic and meaningful religious experiences.
We look forward to working with your son or daughter weekly to prepare for this special day. Please contact Esther Olson with any questions regarding scheduling.
What will we do Friday Evening? The B’nai Mitzvah family —parents and children—will be invited to lead the candle blessing and kiddush.
What time do services begin on Saturday morning? Services begin at 10:30 a.m. unless there are two b’nai mitzvah scheduled and then there is a 9:00 a.m. and an 11:00 a.m. service.
What do parents do? Customarily the parents are called to the bimah to stand with their child during his/her aliyah. Parents also read a parent blessing (in English) and offer words to their child.
What are the customs regarding tallitot and kippot (yarmulkes)? Tallitot and kippot are not required, but are encouraged for those for whom it would be meaningful.
How can I honor other people? There are two aliyot to be given and the following are also honors: